Question 1

Is the only physical location at 495 Flatbush Avenue in Brooklyn, NY?

Accepted Answer

No. The main office is located at 495 Flatbush Avenue in Brooklyn, but the groups in person across our four partner states and seven partner schools.

Question 2

How long has the program been around?

Accepted Answer

We conducted a pilot program in 2018 that had proven to be a success, so we officially rolled out the program in 2019. It has been rapidly growing ever since!

Question 3

What makes your program different from other school affinity programs?

Accepted Answer

Our program is unique because:
 
1. We exclusively cater to boys and their needs.
2. We intentionally keep our group sizes small - no larger than 12 kids. 
3. These boys enter the program from different schools; not just from the same school-like most school based affinity programs.
4. We frequently have guest speakers that are influential adult males (or high school males) to impart some wisdom & knowledge to these young boys.

Question 4

What is an "affinity group"?

Accepted Answer

An affinity group is a group of people who share interests, issues, a common background and offer each other support. People who make up an affinity group share a common identifier, such as race, gender, religion, family status or sexual orientation. In this group, students are given the opportunity to share their personal journeys and family stories as well as examine the world around them as it relates to them as a Black or Brown boy.

We do this in a comfortable in person setting. Through activities and discussions, students will pose questions, discover answers, and develop their voices. The ultimate goal for this group is for students to build a healthy sense of self so that they will always feel empowered to engage deeply with others in the wider community.

Question 5

What do the boys do when they are in the group?

Accepted Answer

We practice character building. Our primary focus is on our 5 core values:
 
Confidence
Respect
Awareness 
Belonging 
Leadership
 
Discussions and activities are based on each core value.  If one has a suggestion for a topic, great! We encourage friends to lead discussions that are important to them.

Question 6

Can siblings join?

Accepted Answer

Yes! We encourage siblings to join!

Question 7

What grades do you serve?

Accepted Answer

We serve 3rd - 8th grade students.

Question 8

How much does the program cost?

Accepted Answer

The prices are dependent on frequency of engagements.  Please reach out to connect to learn more about our pricing options.

Question 9

Does the program run the entire academic school year?

Accepted Answer

Yes. The program typically runs from October - May every year. 
 
Programs will NOT meet on school or national holidays.

Question 10

What day and time do you offer the program?

Accepted Answer

We are currently offering three programs:
 • School-Based Cohorts: These programs are aligned to school needs and vary throughout our 7 partner schools. 
 • Community-Based Cohort: Our New York Location meets weekly on Sundays.  Inquire for more information about location and exact time. 
 • Lit Squad Book Club: Our Lit Squad Book Club meets virtually Sunday evenings.

Question 11

What services are included in the membership?

Accepted Answer

We offer several amazing services!
-Lit Squad Book Club
-Access to guest speakers
-Lifetime access to all The Boys Room members
-Complimentary 1 on 1 session with Founder
-Parent check-in

Question 12

Do you start right on time?

Accepted Answer

Yes. The meetings are fully packed with information & activities and it's very important to arrive on time because it gives the boys the opportunity to "check in" with one another before we get started.

Question 13

How many boys are in a group at one time?

Accepted Answer

There is a maximum of 12 boys in a group. We like to keep it intimate so that it allows us to give everyone the attention that they need and deserve.

Question 14

Do you do 1 on 1 counseling?

Accepted Answer

Yes. We make ourselves available upon request. (Additional fee)

Question 15

Does my son have to be a Black or Brown boy to join?

Accepted Answer

If your son identifies as a Black or Brown boy, he is welcome to join.

Question 16

What if a kid is not participating in the group? How do you handle it?

Accepted Answer

We allow them to "have a moment" and when they feel that they are ready to join in and participate with the rest of the group, they jump right in!

Question 17

How does my donation help support the program?

Accepted Answer

Your donation will go towards the growth and sustainability of this program. Thank you for your support!

Question 18

How can we help support this AMAZING (& quite unique) program?

Accepted Answer

GREAT QUESTION!
1. Sponsor a child.
2. Refer a family.
3. Get a son, husband, brother or friend involved as a guest speaker.
4. Share the program with folks that might not know about it.
5. Tell your child's school about it. 
6. Donate. Donate. Donate.

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